Nik, how did you wake up this morning? I’m not a football person but my husband is a Pats fan like you. He won’t get out of bed and I’m afraid he’s going relapse. He’s been sober for 12 years, any advice? I don’t want this football game ruining my family and I’m sorry for your loss Nik.

I don’t lose much, but when I do- I use the term “perspective”. For example: Did I really lose the Super Bowl? No, because I have great friends, beautiful children and a wife who loves me. My perspective is super clear. Wake him up and read him what I wrote. Your husband is already a champion, he has you.- nik